Many relationship experts state that you should never resort to begging and appearing needy when you are trying to get your ex- lover back in your life. You may feel like doing so, but it is not a good idea to get down on your knees, put your hands together, cry and plead with your ex- girlfriend or boyfriend to come back to you or take you back. There are a couple of reasons why begging seldom works when you are trying to get ex back. Take the scenario of what happens after you have begged and pleaded.
Suppose she decides not to come back to you, then you are left with a highly bruised ego. After this, normally, most people give up trying to get back into the relationship. Begging also leaves your ex with a bad taste in his or her mouth because it makes you come across as someone who is a pushover and does not mind saying anything in order to get back into relationship. But sometimes, you can still recover after you have gone down on your knees. Start with an apology for having put your ex in an embarrassing situation. After that, you must work at coming across as extremely self-confident and strong. This may help salvage your image greatly.